Accountability is not easy to find.
It is our natural inclination to shift the blame off of ourselves and on to someone else, as we are frustrated that, personally, we did not come through when given an opportunity. This is a debilitating habit if we let it become such. We go about our days in spite of others. This is no way to live.
We must give ourselves room to grow, and we cannot be in a growth stage unless we remove the stress of "wrong" from our decision making process. Otherwise we may forgo entering a challenge, getting an idea off the ground.
Make decisions and be open to growth. We must admit we are far from perfect and know very little in the grand scheme of things.
We don't know what we don't know. Thus we must know that we don't know.
“It is wrong and immoral to seek to escape the consequences of one's acts.”
― Mahatma Gandhi